For couples who have been married for ten years or more, sex is more of a task than a pleasure to them. It’s very sad to say but it’s true. The reason of this may vary from different couples but one thing is sure, you can jump start your deteriorating sex life if you want to and if you exert an effort to make it happen.
Here are some of the tips to follow to have a fun, exciting and enjoyable sex life again:
1.Try new stuffs. Anything that we do regular will definitely make us bored, so try to think of the things that will excite both you and your partner. Maybe your bedroom is the only love making place for you and your partner, why not try other parts of your house for a change? Maybe in the kitchen or the the porch?
2.Forget the idea of sex as a task; rather think of it as an enjoyable and exciting thing between you and your partner.
3.Make love making to be unplanned and not some kind of a schedule.
4.Make yourself attractive. It is very important that both of you remain attractive to your spouse. When you have a date with your spouse, try to have a new hair cut, wear a new cologne and try a new sexy clothes.
5.Open communication is the key. It is very important that you both share your sexual fantasies to each other so you will have the idea to satisfy your partner. You will never know that your fantasies are also his/ hers.